The 2 Sides of a Woman

How alive us women must always be; being the bearers of the gift of life. Yet, how conserved we must keep our emotions and fantasies, as we are devalued in the shine of that light.

We are the delicate flowers that decorate the world. The silent backbones of those who govern the same. We are the nurturers, the lovers and the homemakers. We are usually the ones feeding the power into the game.
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A real woman  is complex by nature, yet to the naked eye has everything under control. She has two contradicting sides to her core which creates a constant battle between her independence and her natural need to be loved. We are all emotional, impulsive and resort to some for of temper tantrum when we don't get our way. We have to be in order to remind the world that despite how efficient we run the company, maintain the household and upkeep our appearance; we are only human at the end of the day.

For the most part, a real woman can handle the weight of the world on her shoulders, running on the energy of a better cause. Why do you think all woman appreciate compliments so much? Because we feed off the recognition. What else do we get without asking? We definitely don't get compensated by the same salaries. We don't accept payments of catcalls and empty promises. But a genuine compliment ... a sincere, unsolicited form of acknowledgement and appreciation; could make every stress we bare just melt away. Even if just for a split second until the reality sets back in, it gives us the energy we need to face our realities head on.

It's amazing how simply our complex minds can be eased. For the most part, we feed on emotion over logic. Yet that determination is what separates a female from a real woman. The ability to face the reality of a situation without reacting on impulsive emotions. Despite the type of woman you are, all you want is to succeed on your own terms and share your life with someone who allows you to do you. One who accepts you for who you are and encourages you the same.

A real woman understands that she is beautiful and never loses sense of her own attraction. She is confident with her sexuality, her appeal, her fantasies and her nature, yet remains in control of her own emotions. She is capable of professionally running your office, yet returns home to play a completely different role. "A lady in the streets but a freak in the bed." But we can't do this all on our own. I say this to clearly define the intention.

A real woman does not need someone to take care of her. She doesn't need your money, your gifts or your words. A real woman can do this all for herself. She needs your time, your dedication, your support; a real woman needs nothing but your love. The water that enables the seed to grow and the sunlight that allows it to bloom. We need your maturity to stay in tune with your confidence to support our independence. We need you to understand that loyalty stretches further than lies. Leave the lies with the females who still believe them.

A real woman believes in herself. She doesn't need you, she wants you. If you have been blessed with a real woman in your life it is because you have embraced both sides of her. You trust her enough to let her roam as far as her wings can take her; supporting her in the ways that she needs. You are her strength where she falls vulnerable, yet you never throw her weaknesses in her face. You are bonded by an understanding that human nature is a battle you cannot win. Intentions mean more than actions sometimes.


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