A little bit of flirting never hurt nobody ... BUT ... I'm really feeling the need to air out all you people who are in a relationship, which in most cases, is with someone who you don't deserve in the first place ... and you are still being overly flirtatious with the opposite sex. WHY? Some people may say that in these cases, it's just like the movie says .... "he's just not that into you!" But is that really always the case? I think not. I'm really starting to believe that some people are just relationship greedy. Now, when I say relationship, in this aspect, I mean constant interaction with the opposite sex. I may not be dating more than one person but I sure as hell have relationships with many male friends and acquaintances;, those relationships are just strictly platonic. But I'm only human, I do get my flirt on too! There's limitations to flirting with "outside forces" when you are in a committed relationship.I've come to the conclusion that Social Websites such as Twitter, Facebook and the now dying trend of Myspace, can be detramental to these greedy people. Do you know how many times I've heard, myself included, women go crazy over something they seen on their boyfriends pages? Some of these guys have some nerve! For those of you who take everything word for word, let me clarify my point. I'm not saying if you are in a relationship you shouldn't have these sites or shouldn't comment on any other female aside your girl. What I am saying is KNOW when you are being disrespectful to your girl!
Let's face facts, your girl, whoever she may be, is not going to be the prettiest girl in the world. She sure as hell ain't gonna be the only girl in the world that you find attractive. Commenting on another pretty female is cool. BUT, to leave another female a sexual comment, get too detailed on her pix or just flat out ask her "Can I come over?," is a straight violation of your own relationship. How would you like it if someone told you that they seen your girl comment on some other guys page ... "Wish you were here with me?"
I don't think that would go over too well! So why do it to her? Look, bottom line. No one is perfect and again I will say, with confidence, Human Nature is a Sneaky Bitch! But here's my philosophy ... A Guy will ALWAYS be a Guy at the end of the day ... all I ask is that you keep that shit away from me. You wanna casually flirt with someone, be my guest ... but don't let that shit get back to me! You always wanna give your partner some breathing room so that they don't change who they are just because they are in a relationship. Keeping your individuality is KEY to the survival of your relationship. BUT BE RESPECTFUL!!!!
As Always ~~~~> Jo Jo Said It!!!
Written By Jo Anne-Patricia @MzFilterless
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Enjoyed reading this post. The perspective on flirting and relationships is spot on.
ReplyDeleteI have to admit I've been guilty of doing this in the past. I've had several social accounts on various sites that I would create a persona for the thrill of pretending to be single or pretending to be a swinger. For me, it was just a phase that I grew out of, but there was something exciting about being considered attractive to a whole bunch of "hot" women. I say "hot" with quotes because you never really know what these people are really like in real life since they may be playing a role as well.
ReplyDeleteIn my case, I snapped out of it and deleted the secret profiles and stayed away from sites that would get me into trouble (in one way or another). Maybe with age, I realized what I had at home was more valuable than the flirting I was sharing with strangers.
Don't get me wrong, I still make the occassional naughty comment, but not to the point where it would compromise my relationship. Nuff said. lol