Check It At The Door ...

There seems to be a lot of funny business goin on lately and I'm not sure who told you guys that a respectable female sends you naked pix of herself before she's ever met you, but it must have been the same person who told these same byrds that they are respectable females! Let me clearly define this for you. If you are using social networking sites like Twitter, Myspace and now Facebook to smut yaself out, please understand that you have no one to blame but yourself when your nudey flix wind up on the Internet! Now I personally believe every woman should have at least one naked picture of herself, one smokin bikini shot and of course evidence of how sick you looked in that dress. Having sexy pictures of yourself is completely normal, what's wrong with admiring how beautiful we are? BUT .... unless it is your husband, never ever send naked photos of yourself to anyone. You never know what anomosity the future holds!


Do you seriously think that someone you met off the Internet, who is asking you for naked pics before he asks you to meet him face to face is going to respect you? Especially if you sent them without being asked! HUGE NO NO says JoJo!!!  Sweetheart, as soon as you send those pix, your ass will literally wind up in a folder with the rest of the eye candy, far away from the handful of females he may consider being loyal to when and if he matures! These females make me laugh. I see all these comments from females I know my guy friends don't know personally on some " I miss you ...", "why haven't you called me ...", or my personal favorite, "you're such a jerk ..."! Bitch if he wanted to call you, he would have. Just like if you meant anything more to him than an entertaining way to kill time, he would have been asked to see you. It doesn't matter how far away you live, he would try to make plans to see you. But he hasn't, has he?


Keep dreaming sweetheart. If any of the following apply to you, please change ya swag when you finish reading this blog post, you are slowly but surely killing the game for the rest of us, making men of all ages think we are all byrds and can be treated accordingly!


1. If you go on his social network page and see other females bitching at him for the same things you bitch about. (i.e. not calling you back, or not calling at all, not answering you when you text him. )


2. If he never answers your phone calls but proceeds to answer your texts.


3. If he only compliments you on your looks and/or he only comments on your pix that show skin or where you're purposely popping your ass out (which by the way is excessively corny!)


4. You've never met him but he has your friends on his pages also. (You should check their profiles and pix. You know you stalk him anyway, I'm sure he's saying the same generic shit to them as he says to you)


5. You know he has a girlfriend yet still feel that you may have a shot when and if they break up.


6. You send pix to guys you don't know personally.


7. You see a comment on his page from another female saying something disrespectful about another female and you ask him if she was talking about you! (Hint, this is what happens when you have a guilty conscience. In these cases you already know you're a slide and have obviously accepted yourself.)


8. His guy friends have no clue who you are or know that you're on their boys ish and still request you anyway!


9. You post bikini pix of yourself at the beach (no harm there), but you're wearing makeup! Anyone who goes to the beach wearing makeup isn't comfy in their own skin. They gonna see what ya ugly ass looks like in the mornin anyway!

10. You've accepted the trend of talking to random guys, sending them pix of you, stop talking to them and start talking to their friends.... you're such a byrd, you didn't even realize you're sending the same pix to friends!

Try reading these two books and get yaself together!
Yes sweetheart ... JoJoSaidIt  ... deal with it!


~Jo Anne-Patricia @MzFilterless
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It Is What It Is

The say time heals all wounds -

yet I'm still here bleeding -

patiently waiting.

This battle with myself is suffocating;

I'm choking on my own words while drowning in my own thoughts.

True strength is not deemed by the pounds one can hold ...

but by the courage of a smile guarding a blanket of fear  - ready to unfold.

Nothing sincerely seems real when your harboring fear;

you've let go of the situation,

the person,

and what you thought was the pain;

yet the source of the leaking drain -

is the fear that still remains.

That fear of history repeating itself -

of getting the same cards you've already been dealt.

That annoying "intuition" that "he's just another typical guy,"

when YOU KNOW damn well deep inside...

he's THE ONE you can't live without by your side.

That chest clenching feeling when he's coming home late ...

IS the feeling he's cheating -

caused by the last guy you used to date.

You can call it lack of self confidence

call it my "girlish pride"

But the truth of the matter is, it's all based on the fear -

that I see "forever" in what you've deemed as "just a ride"

If only you knew the pain I've already endured -

If only I realized sooner the damage that pain has really caused.

Would we meet right back on that eye-to-eye level?

Or would it all still be so dramatically disheveled?

I apologize to you from the very deepest of my heart

that I let one simple mistake of yours make my roller coaster of fear start.

This was "our" coaster - so to speak -

we designed the ups and downs.

Yet I allowed my own fear of getting hurt again,

transform us to a Merry Go Round.

I fell in love with the person you are

then tried to change you into what I thought would keep me "safe."

And you loved me enough to accomodate my insanity,

now we both have what we've known we both hate!

That guy that loves his girl to death yet is patiently gasping for air.

That girl who feels like bugging out every time her man isn't right there.

Like we both don't return home to same golden throne!

I'm sorry it took me so long to see -

what you've meant by "I'm still here" ...

it's anything but easy being with me!

                                                 Always Remember tell em Jo Jo Said It!

                           Know Your Flaws, Own Your Flaws ... so you can work out your flaws!

Written By Jo Anne-Patricia @MzFilterless