There seems to be a lot of funny business goin on lately and I'm not sure who told you guys that a respectable female sends you naked pix of herself before she's ever met you, but it must have been the same person who told these same byrds that they are respectable females! Let me clearly define this for you. If you are using social networking sites like Twitter, Myspace and now Facebook to smut yaself out, please understand that you have no one to blame but yourself when your nudey flix wind up on the Internet! Now I personally believe every woman should have at least one naked picture of herself, one smokin bikini shot and of course evidence of how sick you looked in that dress. Having sexy pictures of yourself is completely normal, what's wrong with admiring how beautiful we are? BUT .... unless it is your husband, never ever send naked photos of yourself to anyone. You never know what anomosity the future holds!
Do you seriously think that someone you met off the Internet, who is asking you for naked pics before he asks you to meet him face to face is going to respect you? Especially if you sent them without being asked! HUGE NO NO says JoJo!!! Sweetheart, as soon as you send those pix, your ass will literally wind up in a folder with the rest of the eye candy, far away from the handful of females he may consider being loyal to when and if he matures! These females make me laugh. I see all these comments from females I know my guy friends don't know personally on some " I miss you ...", "why haven't you called me ...", or my personal favorite, "you're such a jerk ..."! Bitch if he wanted to call you, he would have. Just like if you meant anything more to him than an entertaining way to kill time, he would have been asked to see you. It doesn't matter how far away you live, he would try to make plans to see you. But he hasn't, has he?
Keep dreaming sweetheart. If any of the following apply to you, please change ya swag when you finish reading this blog post, you are slowly but surely killing the game for the rest of us, making men of all ages think we are all byrds and can be treated accordingly!
1. If you go on his social network page and see other females bitching at him for the same things you bitch about. (i.e. not calling you back, or not calling at all, not answering you when you text him. )
2. If he never answers your phone calls but proceeds to answer your texts.
3. If he only compliments you on your looks and/or he only comments on your pix that show skin or where you're purposely popping your ass out (which by the way is excessively corny!)
4. You've never met him but he has your friends on his pages also. (You should check their profiles and pix. You know you stalk him anyway, I'm sure he's saying the same generic shit to them as he says to you)
5. You know he has a girlfriend yet still feel that you may have a shot when and if they break up.
6. You send pix to guys you don't know personally.
7. You see a comment on his page from another female saying something disrespectful about another female and you ask him if she was talking about you! (Hint, this is what happens when you have a guilty conscience. In these cases you already know you're a slide and have obviously accepted yourself.)
8. His guy friends have no clue who you are or know that you're on their boys ish and still request you anyway!
9. You post bikini pix of yourself at the beach (no harm there), but you're wearing makeup! Anyone who goes to the beach wearing makeup isn't comfy in their own skin. They gonna see what ya ugly ass looks like in the mornin anyway!
10. You've accepted the trend of talking to random guys, sending them pix of you, stop talking to them and start talking to their friends.... you're such a byrd, you didn't even realize you're sending the same pix to friends!
Try reading these two books and get yaself together!
Yes sweetheart ... JoJoSaidIt ... deal with it!
~Jo Anne-Patricia @MzFilterless
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Showing posts with label Infatuation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Infatuation. Show all posts
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
The Difference between Love and Infatuation
Unfortunately for us, human nature makes it quite hard sometimes to differentiate between love and infatuation. Personally, looking at any relationship from an outside perspective, it's actually quite easy to determine the difference! If you love someone with all your heart and that person has either never loved you back or stopped loving you back (and you continue to convince yourself otherwise) you, my dear, are infatuated! Love is a two way street, anything less is not only borderline dangerous, but it could be borderline obsession!
There is not one person in this world that loves themselves enough that they could "make up for" that mutual love between two people. I've found that in relationships which are based on infatuation rather than true love, you will witness much more jealousy and attachment than you would in a healthy relationship. Becoming too "clingy" to a person usually goes hand in hand with being infatuated with them. Relationships that start out healthy, based on moral reason, could take a gradual turn for the worse as one party become more attached to the other. Again, our human nature forces us to act out in certain ways based on our emotions. In most scenarios, this could be a sad ending to a story once compared to a fairy tale.
In attempts to keep ourselves in line and far from falling victim of infatuation, we need to maintain self control; see things for what they really are. Everyone wants to be happy, but happiness can only be forced for so long, if it's possible at all. Of course, we are all happy when we see the people we love happy. Yet even that happiness can only fulfill us for so long before realizing, we are always giving and never receiving. Although the responsibilities of most relationships are not equally divided 50/50, the main objective is to maintain 50/50 effort at all times. Try not to get too caught up in materialistic efforts or results.
Being a woman myself, I am confident (but not proud) to say that we tend to find ourselves on the "clingy" end much more than men do! Why, you ask? Because men are built to think with their minds and not their emotions. Thus making it much easier to keep their eyes on reality instead of what their heart has already pre-determined was"meant to be."
Although these opinions are just that, opinions, and they are not rules written in stone, I think it's safe to say we can chose what side of the love spectrum we find ourselves on by paying attention to our surroundings. know yourself and the person you are with. It is up to no one else but the two of you to pave the path. There is a fork in the road of every relationship, just remember that simple decisions could lead you towards the wrong side of the fork!
Written By @MzFilterless
Article can also be read at http://www.helium.com/
There is not one person in this world that loves themselves enough that they could "make up for" that mutual love between two people. I've found that in relationships which are based on infatuation rather than true love, you will witness much more jealousy and attachment than you would in a healthy relationship. Becoming too "clingy" to a person usually goes hand in hand with being infatuated with them. Relationships that start out healthy, based on moral reason, could take a gradual turn for the worse as one party become more attached to the other. Again, our human nature forces us to act out in certain ways based on our emotions. In most scenarios, this could be a sad ending to a story once compared to a fairy tale.
In attempts to keep ourselves in line and far from falling victim of infatuation, we need to maintain self control; see things for what they really are. Everyone wants to be happy, but happiness can only be forced for so long, if it's possible at all. Of course, we are all happy when we see the people we love happy. Yet even that happiness can only fulfill us for so long before realizing, we are always giving and never receiving. Although the responsibilities of most relationships are not equally divided 50/50, the main objective is to maintain 50/50 effort at all times. Try not to get too caught up in materialistic efforts or results.
Being a woman myself, I am confident (but not proud) to say that we tend to find ourselves on the "clingy" end much more than men do! Why, you ask? Because men are built to think with their minds and not their emotions. Thus making it much easier to keep their eyes on reality instead of what their heart has already pre-determined was"meant to be."
Although these opinions are just that, opinions, and they are not rules written in stone, I think it's safe to say we can chose what side of the love spectrum we find ourselves on by paying attention to our surroundings. know yourself and the person you are with. It is up to no one else but the two of you to pave the path. There is a fork in the road of every relationship, just remember that simple decisions could lead you towards the wrong side of the fork!
Written By @MzFilterless
Article can also be read at http://www.helium.com/
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